I request that we end this discussion here. It is getting out of context. What started out as a light ribbing, is now going into social moral issues etc.,
I am a little bemused: What is wrong with discussing social issues in a civilized manner (although I agree this isn't exactly the forum for that). However, I have found that the PS group is one of the few tamil groups on the net where one can usually have a discussion of this nature without it degenerating into name calling and "jaadi-kalavarangaL" :-)