Art of giving (worth reading!)
  • *The Art of Giving*

    *"Rivers do not drink their own water, nor do tree eat their own fruit, nor
    do rain clouds eat the rains reared by them. The wealth of the noble is used
    solely for the benefit of others! *

    * Even after accepting that giving is good and that one must learn to give,
    several questions need to be answered.*

    *The first question is: *

    *When should one give? *

    *We all know the famous incident from Mahabharat.*

    *Yudhisthir asks a beggar seeking alms to come the next day. On this, Bhim
    rejoices that Yudhisthir his brother, has conquered death! For he is sure
    that he will be around the next day to give. Yudhisthir gets the message.*

    *One does not know really whether one will be there tomorrow to give!*

    *The time to give therefore is**now**. *

    * **The next question is:*

    * 'How much to give?'*

    *One recalls the famous incident from history.*

    * Rana Pratap was reeling after defeat from the Moghals. He had lost his
    army, he had lost his wealth, and most important, he had lost hope, his will
    to fight. At that time, in his darkest hour, his erstwhile minister,
    Bhamasha, came seeking him and placed his entire fortune at the disposal of
    Rana Pratap. With this, Rana Pratap raised an army and lived to fight
    another day. *

    *The answer to this question how much to give is: *

    *"Give as much as one can! *

    **The next question is: *

    *'What to give?'*

    *It is not only money that can be given away. It could be a flower or even a

    It is not how much one gives but how one gives that really matters. When you
    give a smile to a stranger that may be the only good thing received by him
    in days and weeks! *

    "You can give anything but you must give with all your heart!" *

    *One also needs answer to this question * *whom to give?*

    *Many times we avoid giving by finding fault with the person who is seeking.
    However, being judgmental and rejecting a person on the presumption that he
    may not be the most deserving is not justified.

    *“Give without being judgmental!" *

    **Next we have to answer: *

    *'How to give?'*

    *Coming to the manner of giving, one has to ensure that the receiver does
    not feel humiliated, nor the giver feels proud by giving.

    In giving, follow the advice 'Let not your left hand know what your right
    hand gives? Charity without publicity and fanfare is the highest form of

    *'Give quietly!'*

    *While giving, let not the recipient feel small or humiliated. After all,
    what we give never really belonged to us. We come to this world with nothing
    and will go with nothing. The thing gifted was only with us for a temporary
    period. Why then take pride in giving away something which really did not
    belong to us?*

    *Give with grace and with a feeling of gratitude. *

    **"What should one feel after giving?"*

    *We all know the story of Eklavya. When Dronacharya asked him for his right
    thumb as "Guru Dakshina, he unhesitatingly cut off the thumb and gave it to
    Dronacharya. *

    *There is a little known sequel to this story.*

    * Eklavya was asked whether he ever regretted the act of giving away his
    thumb. He replied, and the reply has to be believed to be true, as it was
    asked to him when he was dying.

    His reply was "Yes! I regretted this only once in my life. It was when
    Pandavas were coming in to kill Dronacharya who was broken hearted on the
    false news of death of his son, Ashwathama, and had stopped fighting. It was
    then that I regretted the loss of my thumb. If the thumb was there, no one
    could have dared hurt my Guru?

    The message to us is clear.*

    * Give and never regret giving!* * *

    *And the last question is:
    ‘How much should we provide for our heirs?'*

    *Ask yourself 'are we taking away from them the gift of work? - A source of
    happiness? *

    *The answer is given by Warren Buffett: *

    *"Leave your kids enough to do anything, but not enough to do nothing!" *

    **I **would conclude by saying: *

    *Let us learn the Art of Giving**, *

    *and quoting the Saint Kabir:*

    *"When the wealth in the house increases, when water fills a boat, throw
    them out with both hands!"*

    *This is the wise thing to do!*

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